When do I know it’s time for my teen to drive?
While it is always scary when a teen becomes of age to drive, it can be even scarier when that teen has bipolar disorder. Maturity, attentional abilities and responsibility will all play a part in when your teen is ready to drive. If your teenager does not express a desire to drive, don’t push it. Wait until he feels ready. If your teenager does want to drive, then make a list of requirements they must meet before they can get their drivers license. Requirements could include: medication compliance, stability, demonstration of responsibility at home and in school and compliance with household rules. You may want to use a learner’s permit for longer than the required minimum time so there continues to be state enforced restrictions and supervision on driving until you are confident that your teenager is ready to have his license.
Consider developing a driving contract for your teenager to sign prior to getting his license. This should clearly outline his responsibilities and what will happen (ie: loss of driving privilege) if there is a breach in them or if there is concern over stability. This driving contract should be in effect as long as your teenager lives under your roof. Allowing a teenager to drive when very unstable could lead to fulfillment of a death wish or manic reckless driving that could result in the death of another driver. There is too much at stake here to become complacent. Additionally, keep in mind that when your teenager begins a new medication or there is a dosage increase, driving should be monitored until you know how your teenager will react to the change. Some medications are sedatives, which could increase the risk of falling asleep at the wheel.
Excerpt from The Childhood Bipolar Disorder Answer Book published by Sourcebooks, Inc.
Copyright 2008 by Tracy Anglada and Sheryl Hakala All Rights Reserved